Friday, April 17, 2009

Some thing very important for our Life

  • It is easy to get angry with those who criticize you.

  • But it is better to listen and to consider what they have to say.

  • If the criticism is completely misdirected and unfounded, then you can simply let it go.

  • Yet often it can be valuable and productive to objectively consider what your critics are thinking.

  • The worst response to criticism is to become angry, insulted and defensive.

  • For by doing so, you actually give more power and credibility to that criticism.

  • Instead, listen carefully and appreciatively to what your critics have to say.

  • Even if the criticism is decidedly negative, somewhere there are positive insights that you can gain from it.

  • Don't let your ego prevent you from learning something valuable.

  • Being receptive to criticism strengthens your confidence and can improve your competence.

  • Choose to know and understand what others think of you.

  • Instead of getting angry and defensive over the words of others, choose to listen, consider and grow stronger because of them.

Source:Ralph Mars ton

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